How confident are you that you can become more self confident?
For example, how confident are you that you can become very self confident one day? Or, if you currently consider yourself very self confident, how confident are you that you can become extremely self confident?
Here’s why this matters: the more confident you are that you can develop greater self confidence, the faster and easier you naturally become more self confident.
Also, the more confident you are that you can increase your self confidence level, the more self confident you already are.
Supersize your confidence: how to develop confidence in yourself confidently
Think about it: you kill two birds with one stone by being very confident that you can and will develop greater self confidence.
You immediately make yourself more self confident (which is exactly what you want, in the first place), and you also make it easier to develop more and more self confidence in the future.
So this is huge!
Indeed, for these reasons, one of the most intelligent, powerful ways to develop greater self confidence is to become very confident that you can and will become a more and more self confident person over time.
You can easily achieve this strong degree of confidence by following the steps below.
Think of each step as a huge confidence booster, because each step makes you more self confident in and of itself, and at the same time makes it easier for you to become more self confident in the future.
How to get more confidence fast: 7 big confidence boosters
Click on each confidence booster (or step) to learn more about how to gain more confidence in yourself quickly.
- Know that you want to become more self confident, and be decisive about achieving greater self confidence, regardless of whether others want you to or not
If you’re unsure or indecisive about wanting to become more self confident, or easily swayed by what others want or don’t want rather than what you want, you’re naturally not as confident.
On the other hand, the more you know you want to develop greater self confidence, and the more decisive you are about doing so, regardless of whether others want you to do it or not, the more confident you are.
So, to become ‘completely’ confident, know without a doubt what you want to increase your confidence level, and decide you want to do this with or without anyone else’s support, acceptance, or approval; this is how to start developing self confidence very quickly.
- Know why you want to develop greater self confidence: be sure you know why it benefits you, and why it’s ok, great, and makes sense to become more confident
If you have any reservations about becoming more self confident (like, thinking it’s ‘bad’ or ‘wrong’ or doesn’t make sense for you to become a more confident person), you will naturally be less confident about taking action to develop greater self confidence.
On the other hand, if you think that becoming a more self confident person is ok, great, and makes sense in every way, then you’re completely comfortable with it and naturally way more confident in what you’re doing to develop greater confidence in yourself.
So, to become ‘completely’ confident, know without a doubt why it’s ok, great, and makes complete sense to become more self confident.
If you don’t know how to become more self confident, you naturally won’t feel confident about developing greater confidence in yourself.
For example, if you’re asking, ‘How do I gain confidence in myself?’ or ‘How do I get my confidence back?’, this means you’re naturally not confident about becoming more self confident, simply because you don’t know how to do it, yet.
On the other hand, if you know of at least one way to develop greater self confidence, you’re naturally confident that you can increase your confidence level; indeed, at this point it simply becomes a matter of taking action to do so.
By knowing how to believe in yourself to create self confidence, you already know of at least one way to achieve what you want.
Yes, there are plenty of other different ways to build confidence in yourself, but the main point, for now, is this: all it takes is simply knowing one way to develop and regain self confidence to be confident that you can and will achieve this.
- Know that you can and will become more self confident, and focus all your attention on doing so, rather than considering any possibility that it won’t happen
Once you know that you can and will do what it takes to develop greater self confidence, you can immediately enjoy knowing that you can and will become a more and more self confident person over time.
After all, becoming more self confident is simply a matter of knowing what self confidence is, how to achieve it, and then taking action to achieve it.
Furthermore, it helps to appreciate that focusing on the possibility that you won’t develop greater self confidence doesn’t help you become more self confident.
In fact, it does the opposite: it naturally undermines your confidence, especially since it leads to you questioning your capabilities and doubting whether you can ‘really’ develop greater self confidence and stay self confident.
The lesson: to be ‘completely’ confident, know without a doubt that you can become more self confident (that, at the very least, you have that potential), and focus all your time and attention on developing greater self confidence, rather than considering any possibility that it won’t happen.
- Know that you can accept, handle, learn, gain, and benefit from any outcome as you develop greater self confidence & that every step you take is a success in itself
Remember, the key to becoming more calm and confident all the time is to develop powerful beliefs that eliminate fear and anxiety and make you more relaxed, such as the belief that you can accept, handle, learn, gain, and benefit from any situation or outcome.
In this case, know that as you take action to become more self confident, you can easily learn something valuable and useful from any outcome (such as, learning that you can easily accept and handle any outcome).
Furthermore, it helps to appreciate that every step you take to become more self confident is a success in and of itself, no matter what, because no matter what occurs, the action and the results are something that you can learn from in a constructive way.
With this confident mindset, you never have to deal with fear of failure at all, because you’re always guaranteed success in some way; it’s simply a matter of how much success.
Once you enjoy the process of becoming more self confident, it ceases to be ‘hard work’ that you have to do, and instead becomes something rewarding and enjoyable that you get to do.
And, if you think about it, it makes complete sense for you to enjoy becoming more self confident, considering how much self confidence benefits you and makes your life easier in every way.
So, if you haven’t done so already, start looking forward to each and every step of your journey in becoming more self confident, knowing that you can (and will) fully enjoy the change and transformation that takes place as you become a more and more self confident person.
This enjoyment makes the change easy and no big deal for you, and thinking of becoming more self confident as being ‘no big deal’ makes you extremely self confident, in itself.
So this is quite the payoff: more enjoyment and a huge spike in confidence in one easy step! Indeed, this is how to get confidence in yourself in the best of ways.
- Know that you already are a self confident person, and look forward to becoming more and more self confident over time
Remember, the ultimate test of your self confidence is to see yourself in the most confident light that your mind can comfortably and honestly accept, regardless of what other people think.
This is because the more you see yourself as a self confident person, even if others don’t, the more self confident you are.
So, it’s important for you to see yourself as being a confident person to some degree as soon as possible, and to then continue seeing yourself as being more and more self confident over time, the more you develop higher self esteem, strengthen your capabilities, achieve your goals, improve you thinking, and so on.
Again, click on each of these confidence boosters (or steps) to learn more about how to get more self confidence with ease.
Now that you know how to gain confidence in yourself quickly…
Keep in mind that there are different degrees of confidence, and the more you ‘know’ each of the things listed above, the more confident you are.
So, if you want to become extremely confident or ‘completely’ confident that you can and will develop greater self confidence, then it’s simply a matter of knowing each of these things without a doubt.
This is how to start gaining self confidence very fast.
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Section 3 Lessons:
- How to gain self confidence fast: 7 confidence boosters
- How to regain self confidence the easy way
- How to stop doubting yourself: 3 easy steps
- How to have self confidence no matter what
- How to be confident about anything: 5 steps