​​​​How To Regain Self Confidence The Easy Way

If you’ve lost confidence in yourself and your abilities, there are several things you can do to get your confidence back faster and easier.

First of all, start with the 7 confidence boosters that help you gain confidence in yourself very quickly.

Then, once you’ve done that, make sure that you don’t waste any time feeling bad about losing your self confidence in the first place. Instead, feel great about becoming more confident.

Here’s why.

How can I get my confidence back fast?

Remember, self confidence is a good feeling about yourself and your capabilities. So, if you feel bad about yourself and your abilities in any way, you’re naturally less self confident.

Also, the more ‘down’ you feel, the more challenging it is for you to improve your situation, since you have less strength, energy, and motivation to create any positive change.

The lesson: feeling bad about any loss of self confidence is a complete waste of time that works against you. It drains you of your self confidence and also makes it more challenging for you to become a more self confident person.

For this reason, stop feeling bad about any loss of self confidence, and instead feel better about yourself and everything you’re doing to become more confident.

How to gain your confidence back quickly: 3 steps

These 3 steps are how to feel better about yourself and your capabilities very quickly, rather than waste any time feeling bad about any loss of self confidence.

Click on each step to learn more about how it helps you get your self confidence back faster and easier.

  1. A loss of self confidence means you were once more confident: so see proof of your capabilities rather than proof of weakness  

If you’ve lost self confidence, you could start thinking that this is a sign that you ‘must’ be weak, defective, or helpless in some way.

But remember: this type of a negative shift in your thinking is exactly why you lost self confidence in the first place!

So it makes absolutely no sense at all to think this way.

Instead, it makes way more sense to think that if you once had a much higher level of self confidence, then you’ve already proved that you are fully capable of being more self confident.

And here’s the beauty of recognizing this: if you already know without a doubt that you can become much more self confident, then you’re already much more self confident just by knowing that.

  1. If you’re not as self confident as you once were, you can learn how to regain your self confidence and become more confident than ever: so see a learning opportunity you can gain from, instead of a loss you regret  

Just as you can see a glass as half empty or half full, you can focus on how you’ve lost self confidence and feel bad and deflated, or you can focus on everything you have to gain as a result of your current situation and feel great and energized.

The difference is that you become more self confident faster and easier with the second approach, which makes it a better, smarter, and far more useful way to think about things.

It’s also completely sensible to do this, especially when you consider that by learning how to regain your self confidence, you’re developing a very useful, powerful skill.

After all, you’re learning how to build confidence that will help you in life in many different ways.

So, in the long run, the end result of you losing self confidence is this: not only will you get back the confidence you lost, but you will be even more confident than you ever dreamed possible, simply by knowing what to do to become more confident.

  1. Blame is counter-productive, while celebrating success is empowering: so celebrate your success with becoming more confident rather than blaming yourself for any failure to be confident  

Just think about it: blaming yourself and others for any loss of self confidence or any ‘failure’ to be confident will not help you increase your confidence level.

Instead, it does the exact opposite, since it makes you feel bad about your situation, and keeps you negatively focused on why you lost self confidence, rather than positively focused on what you can do to become more self confident.

Even worse, this type of blame prevents you from celebrating and enjoying all sorts of gains, as you begin building greater self confidence.

Remember, every action that you take to become more self confident is a success in and of itself, since it is a step that takes you closer to becoming more self confident. (Either every action you take makes you more self confident, or you can learn from the results of your action to become more self confident faster and easier in the future).

The more you celebrate your success with every step you take, the more successful and self confident you feel.

This is why celebrating your success with becoming more confident (rather than wasting time playing the blame game), is such an intelligent, enjoyable, effective way of becoming more self confident faster and easier: it creates empowering feelings of success and confidence at the same time.

Again, click on each step to learn more about how it helps make you more self confident.

Now that you know how to regain lost confidence fast…

Stop feeling bad about losing confidence in yourself. After all, any person can lose confidence in himself — not just you.

What matters, now, is that you start regaining self confidence as quickly as possible.

And to do that, start feeling great, immediately, about becoming more self confident, rather than wasting even a second feeling down about any loss of self confidence.

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Self Confidence Course >> Section 3, Lesson 2/5

Lesson summary:

Learn how to regain lost self confidence quickly & easily. With these 3 simple tips, you’ll learn how to get self confidence back in a way that you’ll love.

Section 3 Lessons:

  1. How to gain self confidence fast: 7 confidence boosters
  2. How to regain self confidence the easy way
  3. How to stop doubting yourself: 3 easy steps
  4. How to have self confidence no matter what
  5. How to be confident about anything: 5 steps

Next Section In The Self Confidence Course:

Section 4

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Hi, I'm Dave Fonvielle, the founder of Always Greater. On this website I teach you step by step how to be happier and more successful achieving your goals, whether it's completing a small personal to do task, like doing the dishes, or a large business goal, like launching a new product. Get my free 3 Tiny Habits for Being Happier & More Successful training for all of this right here.