If you know this without a doubt, you naturally always feel good (or at least better) about yourself, no matter what happens.

For example, even if others tell you that you’re no good or worthless, you don’t waste any time believing them, and you don’t waste any time doubting or questioning your positive value.

So this is how to have more self confidence no matter what other people think.

The idea, here, is that over the course of your life you always can and will achieve things you want to achieve.

To be clear, this does not mean you will achieve everything you set out to achieve.

Instead, it simply means that you always have the possibility of achieving your goals, and over time, you are definitely guaranteed to achieve a lot of those goals, given enough effort and perseverance.

Why this makes sense

To understand this, consider how a baseball player can get a hit every time he steps up to the plate.

This does not mean he will always hit the ball he’s up at bat; only that he can.

Over the course of time, with enough knowledge, effort, and perseverance, he is guaranteed to get some of those hits that he wants.

So in this way, it makes complete sense for the baseball player to know without a doubt that he can and will get hits over time.

Similarly, it makes complete sense for you to know without a doubt that you always can and will achieve things you want to achieve over the course of your life, regardless of what others think.

Why this confident mindset benefits you

By adopting this confident mentality, you never spend a second doubting or questioning if you can achieve things you want to achieve.

Rather, for you, the question is simply how much you will achieve.

This powerful mindset makes you very confident, indeed, and assures you that you will naturally enjoy more success in life.

So this is how to be very confident and more successful in a simple, easy way.

This confident mindset eliminates any fear or anxiety that you will somehow lose confidence in yourself in the future, especially if others don’t value you or your capabilities in the future.

The idea, here, is that if you already appreciate why self confidence benefits you, and you already understand how you can always choose to think in ways that make you more self confident, then it is a no brainer to always choose to think in those ways.

So if you appreciate all this, and you already know that you will always choose to value yourself and your capabilities in the future, you can already know without a doubt — with complete confidence — that you will remain self confident in the future, no matter what happens.

So this is how to be extremely confident that you are and always will be a very self confident person.

Remember, no matter what situation or outcome occurs, you can always choose to accept it. This is just a choice you can make that makes you more at peace.

Also, no matter what happens, you’re going to handle it in some way. The only question is how.

And, finally, what you learn and how you learn from any situation or outcome determines whether you will gain and benefit from it or not.

You can learn negatively

For example, you could give a speech in public, and everyone could mock what you’re saying and call you names.

From this, you could learn that you ‘must’ be a bad public speaker, that you’re not a good person, and that public speaking is the most miserable thing in the world.

You can learn positively

Or, you could deliver the same speech, have the same experience of people mocking you and calling you names, and learn how easily you can continue thinking positively about yourself and your capabilities, as well as how easily you can continue delivering your speech.

From this, you could learn that you’re clearly a very strong, capable person to be able to do this, and you could learn that speaking in public is no big deal, even though many people find it terrifying.

How easily will you accept & handle situations?

If you always handle situations by learning positively, rather than negatively, then you always gain and benefit from any situation or outcome, no matter how ‘horrible’ others might find it.

And, if you’re always gaining and benefiting from every situation, due to how you learn from it, then this makes it much easier for you to accept and handle any situation or outcome.

The lesson: if you already appreciate that you have a choice in how you learn, and you make up your mind to always learn from things in a positive, constructive way, then you can already know without a doubt that you can and will always accept, handle, learn, gain, and benefit from any outcome or situation.

This very confident mindset naturally eliminates fear and anxiety, so this is how to be more confident in yourself in a way that always makes you more calm and relaxed no matter what happens.

Remember, the ultimate test of your self confidence is to be able to honestly see and accept yourself as self confident, regardless of whether anyone else sees you as self confident.

After all, this is how to make yourself confident in a smart way, just by valuing your own positive view of yourself no matter what.

Think about it: if someone sits you down and tells you that you’re not self confident, but you just shrug off that view and disagree with it, continuing to see yourself as self confident, then that already makes you very self confident just to be able to do that.

The lesson: as long as you know without a doubt that you are a self confident person, regardless of whether anyone else agrees with this, you are guaranteed to be self confident.

It’s really just a question of how self confident you are. (And, of course, the more confident you can see yourself, the better.)